Protection From Negativity For An Intuitive Abundant Woman

Many experts claim that intuitive people are also psychic, to a degree – using that 6th sense to know things or make decisions. As such, many intuitive people can also be susceptible to energies from other sources, such as other people.

A NEGATIVE ENERGY ENDURED

I have had an issue for years when it came to being affected by and absorbing the energies of other people. In fact, the worst case for me was a very close relative. It took me years to understand why, after spending time in his presence, I would become upset, confused, frustrated and even negative myself. It would take a very long time for me to return to my normal, more positive self.

Negative Energy

Negative Energy

After our last confrontation, in which he treated me worse than his poor dog he kept chained to a tree and would not explain his reason, I realized I needed to stay away from him, but didn’t really understand why. I just knew I felt better when I wasn’t around him. It took me quite awhile to also realize I needed to forgive him for his extremely negative actions, as my anger and frustration were eating away at my soul. I was losing any spiritual abundance I had. It was affecting my meditations, peaceful mind and heart, and even other relationships.

REALIZING THE PROBLEM & FINDING SOLUTIONS

It wasn’t until just a few months back, after doing research on intuitives, psychics, empaths and sensitives, that I was able to realize what the real issue was that was happening. I was absorbing his negative energy and it was severely affecting me. Then my real research began on how to protect myself from these energies, because they could also affect me from a distance.

Do you:

  • sometimes walk into a room and feel a bad “vibe” or feel exhausted in a crowd?
  • feel easily hurt at times?
  • get told by people that you’re too sensitive?
  • avoid conscious recognition of the emotional basis of an act or feeling by substituting a superficially plausible explanation?
  • sense negative emotions evoked by other people and sometimes don’t know if it’s coming from them or you?
  • get nervous and agitated around hyperactive people?
  • need to be alone to re-energize?
  • feel, at times, as if you’ve lost your own identity or are suffocating in an intimate relationship?
  • listen well to others and give generously of yourself?

If so, in all likelihood, you are an intuitive, empath, sensitive or psychic, and need to know how to protect yourself in order to continue your positive journey toward a life as an abundant woman.

TIPS AND SUGGESTIONS

Here are a few tips, which I have found helpful, on how to protect yourself from negativity.

Keep at least 20 to 30 feet away from any negative person, called an “emotional vampire” by Dr. Judith Orloff. (Judith Orloff, MD, Are you an empath?, http://www.huffingtonpost.com/judith-orloff-md/are-you-an-emotional-empa_b_697483.html). Don’t be concerned if you feel you may be offending someone. This is for your emotional and psychic protection. Dr. Judith Orloff has some amazing programs, books and online courses on intuition, positive energy and empowerment!Positive Energy & Emotional Freedom

Clean negativity from you. Brush your head, arms and body with your hands as if wiping off dirt or dust. Put your hands on your solar plexus (your emotional center). Imagine a clean white light emanating from your hands into your solar plexus to clean out any negativity that may have found its way in.

Envelope yourself in a protective shield when around suspect people. Visualize your body being enveloped in a white light that blocks the negativity but allows positive energy to be absorbed.

Center yourself with deep breaths. As you breathe in, feel positive, calming energy entering into your lungs. As you breathe out, see the negative energy leaving your body as a dark mist or fog.

Manage your emotions. Have a safe, private and natural space in your home where you can go for meditation and centering to rejuvenate, especially if there are family members in the home whose emotions you have been absorbing.

Spend time with positive people. Encourage and cultivate friendships with people who have positive energies. Spending time with these people can help you strengthen your own positive energies, which will help negate any negative energies you find yourself absorbing.

These exercises are not something that will alleviate your issues with negative energy right away. They must be practiced on a regular basis for you to strengthen your own energies and protection.

So, as they say, practice makes perfect. Be sure to check out Dr. Judith Orloff’s programs, books and online courses. They are fascinating, uplifting and so very helpful! I wish you the best in your endeavors and would love to hear from you with any other tips or helpful practices you use to keep your energies positive and your soul happy!

26 thoughts on “Protection From Negativity For An Intuitive Abundant Woman

  1. Hilda

    Margoth, I really enjoyed reading this article. I really feel to be alone sometimes to reenergize. Many people tell me I am too sensitive and yes, I feel the vibes some people send off. I definitely feel hurt at times. I am impressed with your test. I will try to protect myself by following your advice and tips. Thanks for sharing! Blessings!
    Hilda

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    1. Margot Post author

      Hi Hilda, it does sound as if you have this gift (some feel it’s a curse). Please let me know if any of these tips help and how you do on the test. I look forward to hearing if any of these helped you as they have me!
      Blessings to you also!
      Margot

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  2. Michelle

    Hi Margot. This was a very interesting thing to read about because I can so much relate to what you’re saying! It is easy to take hold of someone else’s negative energy and make it our own. I have learned that we are just hurting ourselves, which is a losing situation on our end! I love how you said that a negative person is an emotional vampire. Great article that makes a person stop and think!

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    1. Margot Post author

      I am very glad you got some information from it. I believe there are so many more sensitive and intuitive adults in the world than we can imagine. Just seeing the number of responses signifying having the gift verifies it for me. I hope you are able to use the tips and find some relief from being around negative people, of which there are many also, unfortunately. Pleae keep in touch and let me know if you found the tips helpful.
      Best wishes to you!
      Margot

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  3. Jared

    Negative people absolutely bring me down. Without fail I will get dragged down (drug down?) into the mire. And like you said it takes me a while to recover. Thank you for sharing these techniques for me to try next time I’m around a negative person.

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    1. Margot Post author

      I said before I sometimes wish I had made the site abundant person instead of woman, as I hope my posts help all men and women who come to visit. I appreciate your comments!
      Positive thoughts go to you!
      Margot

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  4. Kim Sprowl

    I can totally relate to this post. I was married to someone who believed with his entire being that the world was not made for him to succeed in it. He was not a mean person, in fact, he was very kind. But, he had a victim’s mentality. I believe he got it from his parents. Being anywhere near them was completely exhausting. I am so grateful my son and I live hundreds of miles away. I am very careful now about who I allow to be in my space.

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    1. Margot Post author

      Wise words for sure! I too have experienced that and it can be very exhausting! I would find myself avoiding this man as much as possible, which is so sad because he, too was very kind. I’m glad to know you are aware of this and do what you have to in order to protect yourself and your son!
      Best wishes for a positive life!
      Margot

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      1. Bucky

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  5. Ty Jord

    Very useful information here Margot,

    I’ve found some tips that can be applied in my life, thanks for the motivation, we spend so much of our lives letting people’s words of inner bitterness dictate our thoughts and actions.

    I say break free from this rubbish, life is too beautiful and too short, keep up the good work.

    Ty

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    1. Margot Post author

      Thank you Ty! You have a wonderful outlook on life and that is such a good thing to see! This world needs more people with that attitude.
      I appreciate your kind words.
      Stay positive!
      Margot

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  6. Karen

    I have experienced this with a close family member also! I just didn’t realize what was happening. I would avoid visiting her or going to family functions if I knew she was going to be there. I missed out on seeing my family together so many times. Now I know what I can do to make sure I do not miss any more family get-togethers! I can’t wait for the next family reunion! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!!!!!

    Karen

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    1. Margot Post author

      I’m so sorry to hear that Karen! Unfortunately, it’s really hard to make up for lost time with family either. I’m so glad to hear you are now looking forward to being with your family again! I wish the best for you and am sure you’ll have great success with these tips. I know they have helped me tremendously. I’m not sure if I’m looking forward to seeing my family member, even if the tips do work…LOL
      Best wishes!!
      Margot

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  7. Jenny

    This is an extremely helpful post. I’m an empath and generally a very positive person, so being around negative people really affects me. I’ve tried to slowly cut these toxic people from my life and couldn’t be happier. But what do you recommend for dealing with someone that’s negative in your work space? That’s been a tricky one for me as I HAVE to deal with them on a daily basis.

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    1. Margot Post author

      Hi Jenny. I completely understand what you have and are experiencing. I actually had to cut ties with a sibling because of his intense negativity. I’ve learned to shield myself against most, but some are so strong. My strongest suggestion is meditation. You can really clean out negative energy that way and it makes your spirit stronger to be able to withstand most negativity. You also might want to find a quiet spot a few times at work (maybe even the restroom) and wipe it off. Spend a little time centering yourself while your at it….the deep breaths, positivity in, negativity out. I find those all work quite well. Give it a try and let me know if it helps. There’s also a website http://empathcommunity.eliselebeau.com that can help a lot with advice and just a place to let it all out. Best wishes to you. Again, let me know how you do…
      To your abundance and positive spirit!
      Margot

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  8. Viljoen

    Hi Margot

    There is one big thing that I have noticed. If you are between people that are negative, you will also become negative. You don’t have to think it, because whether you like it or not, your subconscious mind stores everything that it hears, whether it is good or bad.

    Great post

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    1. Margot Post author

      Viljoen, that’s where I’ve found focusing on keeping that white shield around me and taking a lot of cleansing breaths. If you work on protecting yourself, hopefully it will keep the worst from affecting you. By all means, don’t feel bad about distancing yourself also. There’s no reason you should have to endure something like that. Stay positive and work on that shield.
      Best wishes for your protection and abundance!
      Margot

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  9. Sonia

    What a great read. I have someone close to me with a very negative energy and I feel negative every time I’m around him. I will begin to apply some of these techniques. Thank you

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